Well probably not technically but I think it does anyway?
I recently went on a part-time job interview to make a little more income to supplement what I am making at home. Now I have specific requirements for work because we are a night family. My husband has worked nights 4pm-4 or 6am in the morning for 27 years. I spent our daughters early years being the day parent while hubby was a part-time husband and father on weekends only. We literally never saw him Monday-Friday unless he had a day off. So I look for jobs that will fit my abilities and my life. I do not apply for jobs hoping they change the hours to meet what I want.
Okay, so now at this point in my life I am NOT willing to sacrifice my couple of hours a day with my hubby unless we are so down and out broke I have to. If I have a choice I will work the hours that gives me work-life balance.
So I sent in my resume and got an interview. The hours were very specific in the ad 4:30pm-9pm Mon-Thurs & Friday 10am-2pm. Okay, this was workable for me as I get to see hubby 2 hours a day 2pm-4pm Monday-Friday and missing him on 1 day a week was workable because I still get to see him on weekends.
Well I get to the interview and we are talking then she says “oh I have changed the hours for the position” then proceeds to tell me the new hours and asks, “is that okay”. I politely tell her no that it is not workable and explain why. I tell her at this point in my life I wish to spend time with my husband and that I applied because the hours would work perfect for my situation and I was qualified.
She continues to talk about the position then also informs me she has also added in a “mandatory” Saturday and again asks, “is that okay”. She must not have heard me the first time. We are being polite and friendly but at this point I make it MORE clear that Saturdays are NOT okay and again explain why.
Well then a little more chit chat to be courteous and I find out that when “she” was married she was the opposite and worked as much as she could because she didn’t like being with her husband and that she loves her job. She also talks a little more about how she would want a person as dedicated as her and that on Monday mornings if she called and asked the person to come in early they would. WHAT! This little part-time job (now full-time) only pays $8.50 an hour and commissions and you want someone to basically be at your beck and call. Not this girl. I told her there was a time in my life I probably would have agreed to such changes but not anymore. My marriage and family means too much to me. And funny then she mentions she wishes she could find a hubby she wanted to spend time with. Hello! Not if you are married to your job, good luck with that one.
So why do I think this is a bait and switch type interview. Because the interview appointment was made on Wendsday evening and my interview was on Thursday at 1pm. She should have told me up front that the hours had changed majorly and that it was no longer part-time and it now had mandatory Saturdays. I would then have declined the interview. She wasted my time and hers. She needs to find someone who doesn’t have a life and they are happy to make her and the job their life.
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