Sex after 40 for Married Women

Well gotta admit right off the bat I am 42 and counting   So why did I decide to write about sex after 40 for Married Women.  Well because I having some of the best sex I have ever had. The older I get the better it gets…. Woot!

Now lets back up a few years here.  I met my hubby when I was 17.  Life happened fast and we had a baby girl 3 months before my 20th birthday.  So let me just say I have something to gauge here as I had sex with my hubby when I was a young girl, a young lady and now a 40+ women.

We didn’t marry right after I had our  daughter.  Let’s just say we had some oats to sow until she was 5 1/2 then we realized what we were missing and well the rest is history.

Now I have always loved sex but for some reason I think I love it more now then I did when I was younger.  My thoughts on that is because now at 40+ I know what I like, I know how to ask for what I like and well I pretty much have no inhibitions with my hubby.  I feel safe.  I can be sweet and loving and he won’t be thinking I want him to marry me, cause well we already did that.  I can be a little well “not that in to it” because I am exhausted and he understands.  Or I can be down right freaky and a little kinky and he seems more than willing to want to take it outside with me

And speaking of outside, what is up with that??  I have been totally into the outside stuff for over 10 years now and it doesn’t seem to be subsiding.  Hee hee I love the wind in my, well……….. enough said.

Now with our age creeping up on us I do tease my hubby that I hope he can keep up with my sex loving self as women seem to peak in the later years and men start declining, so I’ve read.  It’s a funny conversation and he simply laughs at me and tells me it’s because I’m a perv.  Well maybe I am but I don’t have a problem with it and I’m sure he doesn’t either.

Which leads me to my questions for other 40+ married women.  Am I normal?  Are all of you enjoying sex as much as I am?  Does this glorious state I’m in disappear at menopause?  And lastly, if at menopause it disappears, does hormone therapy help keep our lusty selves in tact?

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